Why do people cheat in a relationship?

So lately I have been hearing a lot of these cheating cases by my friends and it is somewhat so strange. Now it is a certain thing that one cannot judge anyone’s situation at that phase. The main concern that people have is why do they cheat? What do they get after cheating? I have heard girls saying he wasn’t my types so I dumped him or I just started seeing someone else and he was way to cuter than him? Also boys do the same, there is no partiality in this matter. But are you serious? Was it even love? No it wasn’t, it was his/her stupidity or may be that person was not on the right track. It’s true that love doesn’t require any sort of age factor but one needs to be mature enough to live in such relationships. There is a huge difference between attraction and love so get attracted to the person who loves you and don’t love a person who is attracted to you. Don’t play with someone’s heart it is as precious as yours and so are the feelings.

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Loving someone is like giving half of your life to them. They are destined to feel you, love you and appreciate your perfect imperfections. Don’t hurt them and even if you are caught in some wrong relations, try not hurting them because once you leave them, their soul dies inside, they feel helpless and what not. Try to make that person better rather than filling them with all that hate, try motivating them for their life. Life can be filled with so many distractions, but remember this simple truth: You are here to love, and the most powerful and transforming love is manifested when you begin by loving yourself.

Also please share your views on this topic! And do let me know if you want me to write some certain topic related to this matter.

p.s- I may be right or wrong, these are my personal views!

Till then be happy:)

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64 thoughts on “Why do people cheat in a relationship?”

  1. You raised a valid point…now a days people chase only their infatuations and not love. And once they get that they betray the other one, because they never really get the love which completes them. Perception of love has become materialistic, when it should be actually spiritualistic. But all these breakups are actually a learning process to know what they actually desire, just hope they don’t get too late for that..but eventually it Is their own destiny..
    Nice post..

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    1. Your point is up to the point, even if someone goes through such phase they need to learn its essential meaning to become a better person! Thank you for sharing your views 🙂

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  2. I couldn’t agree more with everything you’ve written. Especially with this point: “It’s true that love doesn’t require any sort of age factor but one needs to be mature enough to live in such relationships.” I guess most of the cheating might stem from the person not being mature/dedicated/caring enough to consider his or her partner’s feelings. Truly loving a person requires hard work and sacrifice, and some people just want to avoid such responsibilities.

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    1. You are absolutely right. Our coming generation is not aware of such responsibilities and sacrifices , their concern is all about fun! Thank you for sharing your views 🙂

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      1. My pleasure=) There is still hope left that in the future, the “fun” part will cease to be as important. But that would mean a huge change of values.

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  3. People who cheat in a relationship are those type of brains who have already decided that they are not going to make a permanent relationship with his partner whom they cheat. They just make relationship for fun and lust. That’s why they cheat.

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  4. Aanchal, nothing can be great then this post. I’m so glad that both of us posted same kind of articles on the same day. The only difference is first one has to read your post, it’ll be warning for her/him. Still,, if he/she cheats and ended up breaking with each other. There comes my article which will help people to get through that trauma. My post will become Masiha for them. 😉

    I especially loved that line – attracted to those people who loves you, and don’t attracted to people who you love.

    Maza aagaya Aanchal:) 😘

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  5. Exactly!! This is a wonderful post indeed and love the way you initiate it with example of cheating.Cheating with anything in course of life is worst and in relationship its sin though it is a common now a days.People loosing the value of relationships and betraying is regular in most of the cases.

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  6. I am glad that people like you are there on earth… What you Have described about love I am doing that for last three years and I have seen that change in the person I love ❤❤❤❤

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  7. True love is the desire to serve. If you want to serve your parents you desire to love them if you serve the plants in garden, you are expressing love to the plants, but if one approaces other entity to get served rather than serving that is not love, that is the act of selfish gratification.

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  8. A very common yet important problem in today’s society – romance and relationships. Heartbreaks happen like childbirths in India, albeit the latter one is something to be happy about.
    Your article sheds light on it without being too feminist about your views. I’m really glad to have read it.
    Keep writing, Aanchal! 🙂

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  9. Love is matter of time .. .. .. the only true love story of relationship I suggest you is …
    #Real Love Story Of Moideen And Kanchana Mala
    It is what love is about .. I guess …
    Check it out in Google and you will get the story …..


  10. I guess the purpose of love is to be understood well….the purpose of love isn’t being in a relationship…or possessing a GF or BF….its about trust,dedication,and honesty…towards self and your partner both.people get into relationships desperately…without thinking of the consequences of coming in a relationship just because of a fling.that is the root cause of people cheating their partners.bdw…nice post

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  11. Cheating is so acceptable in our society now until they consider it the norm. People don’t like it but tolerate it. Personality disorders such as narcissism includes repetitive lies and cheating. People cheat in most cases because they can.

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  12. I second that.
    Age is not a factor but maturity surely is. Most of the times and for most of us, maturity is related to age.
    Nothing can be more truer than this line of yours “love so get attracted to the person who loves you and don’t love a person who is attracted to you”.
    These days what’s happening is people don’t know the real essence of love. They think of celebrating valentine’s day as love but the truth is when in love, everyday is valentine’s day. They take lust as love which is one of the most wrong things.


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