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A lit bit of what I experience!


I am Ugly

Young lady – Look at my face, it’s so small. My lips are way too thin and I am so pale. My hair doesn’t suit me and I hate myself.

Her Childhood version – What else is left? I am you when you were little, you said my face is small, my lips were too thin and I look so pale. What else is wrong with me?

Young lady – There’s nothing wrong with you!

Her Childhood version – No, go ahead and tell me each and everything you hate about me!

Young lady – No I am not going to do that!

Her Childhood version – That’s exactly what you are doing to yourself right now! Tell me that my stretch marks are ugly! What do you think about my scar at the right eye! My ugly feet?

Young lady – No, they are beautiful. You are beautiful.

Her Childhood version – Then why can’t you say it to yourself?

 

Then why would you say it to yourself now? If you wouldn’t say it to yourself when you were little!



30 responses to “I am Ugly”

  1. Interesting perspective. Well done! 🙂

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  2. Lovely
    A good way from bringing out the truth

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  3. I have seen beauty turn ugly when character flaws came up, and I have seen ugliness hide itself underneath beautiful features of soul.
    Its intriguing, the way you write. Continue this one I would suggest..:)

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    1. True! Well i will try. Thankyou 🙂

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    Aanchal guess what? Here i nominate you for sunshine bloggers award.😘😘

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  5. I love it, such an amazing way to describe a persons internal conversation and what does to them. Keep up the great work! 🙂

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  6. I saw the video of this in youtube, such an important message to spread 🙂

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  7. aw hurt my heart aliddle because I know her so well…took me long into adulthood to be able to see myself and funny what brought me to start to think yes I am beautiful were the pictures of me when I was small…its awful the negative comments that can stick to a child for so long after they are said. I was gald to just read this its a nice reminder of how far I have come! 🙂 Thank you for that! ❤ there is not a word that can be spoken that could shake me now but I still feel for that liddle girl

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    1. I am glad you liked it !
      Thankyou for sharing your story 😊
      And yes that’s sad for that girl!

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  8. Reblogged this on Saint's Mind.

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  9. you writing is simple yet heart warming.. 🙂 this is one gem of a thought that you’ve portrayed with ease.. 🙂 keep writing lady.. 🙂

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    1. Thank you so much girl!
      You made my day💜

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      1. then the pleasure is all mine.. 🙂 🙂

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  10. I nominated you for the Liebster Award. I really hope you can participate. 😊

    Liebster Award

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  11. Great post aanchal!

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  12. Very beautiful..and nice title ‘ i am ugly’

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  13. Sometimes we are too hard on ourselves and are very self critical. Most of us need to learn to love ourselves.. Thanks for this.

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    1. Yes ! I completely agree with what you wrote. Thank you to you too!

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