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Expectation Hurts

I expected to achieve this but I failed. So this is what my life expected from me? And that’s the problem, we expect a lot from ourselves, from others and unfortunately everything. The key to survive is to never expect anything from anyone, because expectations always hurts.

We all have expectations and we pretty much have them all the time. We expect the road to be there when we drive over the hill. We expect the police, the fire department to be on time. And when these expectations are not met, part of our world seems to fall apart.

So the best way is to not expect and give your best in everything and trust the process.


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35 responses to “Expectation Hurts”

  1. Am in unison with you

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  2. True. Expectation hurts. Better not to expect things. But because of human nature, we fail. Better we learn to cope up with those moments when expectations doesn’t meet.
    Nice post, Aanchal! 😃

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    1. Exactly! To fall and learn from our mistakes is the best thing to understand.
      Thank you 😇

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  3. Expectations? Well you literally expressed things which most people thing.👌

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  4. Very well written.. But it’s human nature. Sometimes we expect and get hurt. And we learn a lesson. 🙂

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  5. It’s very hard not to expect something, but yes it does make me happier 🙂

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  6. Yes, This Is Right. But What I Think That If We Never Expect Something, Than How Can We Achieve That. Reason For Disappointment Is Expectations, True. But We Can Train Ourselves To Not Get Disappointed If We Can’t Achieve That. So As Per My Views We Have To Expect All The Things That We Love 🙂

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    1. True it is. Sometimes we do need to expect to achieve something in life.
      Thank you Ved😇

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  7. Well as I see, there are two ways to be happy: improve your reality, or lower your expectations.

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  8. I have the same issue I don’t expect anything from anyone

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    1. Sometimes that’s the best option left.

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  9. Lovekesh kumar singh Avatar
    Lovekesh kumar singh

    Yes, u r right. Expectation hurts 😖, but not always. According to me if you expect something which is in your limit or you can say that what you can achieve or what is possible in nowdays situation(police on time in such rush), then expectation will not hurts.
    For ex. U have ability to crack SSC exam but if you expect civil services with same efforts and knowledge then expectation will definetly hurts, but if you expect to crack SSC then surely it will not hurt.

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    1. True examples.
      Thank you 😊

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  10. Expectations hurt I agree. But we expect what we deserve. And if we don’t get what we deserve what’s the point of that relationship?
    I expect things because I deserve that. And if I get hurt it’s okay because maybe my expectations was too silly 😂😂

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    1. Haha! I completely understand your point 😂

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  11. Righto!! One should always hope but never expect for anything!!❤

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  12. Magically relatable on a personal level!

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  13. Human nature expectations!! But yes when we don’t expect you are tend to stay more happy!! Because keeping expectations make a person week!!

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  14. I totally agree with you

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  15. All is true, we start to get sad when we expect something. Excelent work

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  16. Exactly, most of our deeds are attached to expectations. But most of them are unfulfilled, that’s what leads to sadness. So, do your job passionately, all will be good.

    (haha, took long to see this piece, nearly a year) anyways, stay blessed!

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    1. Yes absolutely. Hard work and passion is an amazing combination.

      Not a problem. Thank you 🙂

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  17. Well said. Expectations always result in disappointments. Read my blog ‘Never Expect’

    Never expect

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